I guess if you're going to be heartbroken, you want the response I got this morning. I finally felt like I went into stage 2, where I just didn't want to discuss things or cry and then here I am in tears as I read his response to my letter.
1. You are more than a fuck buddy, an amazing one at that, but way
more. You are somebody I can talk with openly and break out of this shell.
That is no small feat. You are cool, smart, fun, super sexy and down
right FUCKING HOT and you should never take a backseat to anyone. I
thought that when you were with the guitarist and I feel that now.
2. When you speak of who I should be with... I don't see you outside of
that at all. Any guy should be proud to be with you. You are the kind
of woman that makes a guy better just being knowing he is with you. If
you know what I mean, the kind of woman that just randomly pops into your
head with a "holy shit I am with MG!" Don't think I didn't have those
moments. I wouldn't have invited you to stay over had I not nor would
I have kept things going.
As when we first started, I said I wouldn't hide things from
you. You know I dig you... and I knew if I didn't find somebody I dug, you
would absolutely find someone you did.
I consider you a friend and absolutely plan on keeping it that way.
I won't cast bad juju on things, but you know I won't lose your number.
I was hoping for no response or for an asshole response. For some reason I was hoping that would be better, but instead I get this. I thought I was good at Dear Johns, turns out he's better.
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Of course he's going to send you an "I dig you" message. Friends w/Benefits is a lot like fight club in that they both have a few key rules. The first rule of FWB is never burn a bridge with a FWB, you never know when you'll need to tap that ass again.
I guess my lesson learned from this is that we can't be. I thought I was cold enough to just sleep with him, but turns out I'm not.
What did he tell you about the new girl, anything?
Nothing. He just met her a week ago and wants to ask her out. Knowing him, she's a tall, skinny and incredibly intelligent woman.
He hasn't even gone out with her yet and he's already blowin' you off? Maybe he is just playin with your mind.
You write a lot of the things he wrote to you on this blog. The problem is you don't really believe all of it and you don't think you're good enough for a good man. You should make a rule not to touch genitals until the 5th date.... unless you start experimenting with the females like you've been talking about.
I don't deny that I don't think I'm good enough. The truth is, show me a guy that I should feel that way about and I will. I used to believe that I was and past experiences have proven me wrong. I'm a puppy that's been kicked too many times. I'm not sure how to get over it.
And I'm not switching to women.
You should take a couple days of vacation. That's always a good cure for the blues.
If only the schedule would allow and the funds, I'd be on the next plane to CT.
Why CT, of all the states in the union?
A friend is out there - and it's far away from WI!
Hawaii is far away from Wisconsin too, and everyone there is your friend. Aloha!
You always have IA! O and I would take you in a heart beat.Then we could go to all the casinos around the area and take free drink cards from old guys.
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